Exchange Couple’s Spring Getaway

March 6, 2020 @ 6:00 pm March 8, 2020 @ 1:00 pm

A cord of three strands is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12


Accommodations and meeting space will be at The Embassy Suites Riverfront, a brand new hotel along the riverfront of historic Wilmington, NC, featuring all suites, a roof top restaurant with outdoor spaces to gather with friends to watch the sunset over coastal North Carolina and convenient location to many great restaurants, coffee shops, Cotton Exchange Market, historical sites and the beaches. 


In addition to Biblical teaching and marital training you will receive, we will provide you with tools, coach you in skills, share life experiences and give you the opportunity to practice and apply skills one-on-one with your mate. In addition to the individual couple time you will experience, you will also experience and benefit from the community of other couples as you share this journey together.

Activities & Free-Time

A highlight of the weekend is that there will be a full afternoon for you and your mate to explore and enjoy the Wilmington area with the downtown riverwalk with convenient access to the Cotton Exchange, eclectic restaurants, coffee shops and boutiques, historical sites and you are just a few short minutes from local beaches.


Early Registration Cost/Payment Method:

There is an early registration conference fee of $330 per couple provided an initial deposit of $100 is made by January 5** followed by the balance by February 23. If you pay using credit card via online payment method we ask that you pay the fee associated with credit card payments. Otherwise, you can write a check and place in the offering basket on Sunday mornings or give to Rick or Beth McKoy. Be sure to write on the check that it is for the MARRIAGE GETAWAY. Either way you chose to pay you still must register online using the link or via Planning Center. 

Note: Early registration is open to only members or regular attenders of Exchange. If there are spaces available after Jan 5, then non-members can register.

The registration fee for the getaway includes 2 nights luxury accommodations, a full breakfast complete with made-to-order omlet and waffle/pancake bar and conference materials. You will be responsible for all other meals, activities and $13 per day parking municipal parking fee.

Registration Cost/Payment Method after January 5:

After January 5, the cost will increase to $345 per couple. 

Again, couples are required to make a minimum of a $150 non-refundable deposit upon registration with the balance due February 23, 2020.

Conference Hosts

Rick and Beth McKoy have been married for 41 years. Early in their marriage, the Lord began to call them both into marriage ministry out of what He was doing in their own marriage. Since then, they have been faithful to lead marriage conferences, mentor and counsel couples, and equip husbands and wives to fulfill mission toward oneness in marriage. Rick is also a licensed professional counselor. Together Rick and Beth share a desire and passion to equip couples to not only survive their marriages, but to thrive in them.

Ed and Katie Martin have been married for 17 years and have 4 children. Ed is one of our pastors at Exchange and is a gifted teacher in pointing us back to Jesus and is passionate and focused on equipping others to lead and serve.. Katie leads our children ministry and serves on our Women’s Ministry Team among many other roles in Exchange including our pastor’s wife.

Graham and Sue Michael have been married for 10 years and have 4 children. They both served as missionaries overseas before getting married and moving to North Carolina for seminary and graduate work. Four kids in five years whilst making your way through grad school makes for a crazy few years in life and ministry (take it from them)! Graham teaches Bible and the Ancient World at a school in Raleigh, and Sue loves to serve the women of Exchange through teaching and mentoring. Graham and Sue are passionate about discipleship and spiritual formation, and care deeply for the health of couples as they pursue to the Lord in their ministry and vocation. They currently serve as small group leaders and lead the Exchange Sunday morning corporate prayer time. 

What People Think

“Getting a reset for our relationship was invaluable, after 6 yrs of marriage and 2 kids, multiple job changes, etc…we needed to talk through things that we didn’t have the vocabulary to even bring up. Being given questions and tools to know HOW to have those conversations will serve us well for the rest of our marriage.”

“I can honestly say it was life-changing. Personally, I grasped a deeper vision for what God desires in marriage, that is, Oneness. I could quote the Scriptures and explain a biblical marriage decently in an essay but I don’t believe that my heart grasped the DEPTH of two becoming ONE until this weekend. God wants us to passionately pursue unity with our mate just like Jesus did for His church. Prior to this weekend, I feel that we lived like we are just two pretty compatible people with common interests sharing their resources. My heart finally caught up with my head (knowledge)!”

“I would say my marriage was in the very middle of the disenchantment phase when we arrived. Personally, the retreat made me more aware that my wife’s needs and desires are more than the income I bring to the table and physical intimacy. The getaway had a very positive impact on our marriage.”

“This getaway was what we needed, but we didn’t realize how much we needed it. I think it set up a good foundation upon which we may build for the seasons to come, and revealed how much we need these spaces to connect with one another more regularly”

“We had an amazing time getting to know the other couples and instructors. We both really enjoyed going through each lesson and then continuing our conversations afterwards. The getaway had a tremendous effect on us both, and we are now able to view our relationship in a new and fruitful way.”

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